Valentine’s Day isn’t only about romance—it’s about celebrating queer love in all of its forms. Whether you're spoiling a partner, a best friend, a situationship, or simply treating yourself, there’s something powerful about choosing gifts made for us, by us. From bold statement jewelry to handcrafted ceramics and indulgent self-care essentials, these gifts don’t just look good—they honor the creativity, resilience, and joy of the LGBTQ+ community.
This list is packed with queer-owned brands and service providers offering everything from everyday luxuries to transformative experiences. Whether you’re shopping for a soft butch, a brat femme, or a nonbinary hottie who loves an indulgent bath soak, you’ll find something made with intention and queer magic. Because love—whether romantic, platonic, or self-love—is best celebrated on our terms.
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Lord Violet: BANDIT Rolo Choker – $40.57
The BANDIT Rolo Choker is a bold, genderless statement piece that merges the attitude of a bolo tie with the edge of a choker. Handmade in Montreal by queer designer Nicola Dawn of Lord Violet, this adjustable 26" chain in black or gold adds effortless rebellion to any look. Crafted with a sleek yet edgy design, it’s perfect for those who embrace individuality and defy expectations. Whether worn solo for a minimalist statement or layered for added impact, the BANDIT Rolo Choker is the ultimate accessory for those who dare to stand out.
The Peach Fuzz: Brat Pearl Necklace – $30
For the 365-day party girls and unapologetic brats—this one’s for you! The Brat Pearl Necklace features faux pearls and a bold stainless steel nameplate that proudly reads BRAT in all caps. Measuring 16-18 inches, it’s nickel-free and safe for sensitive skin, making it perfect for everyday wear or wild nights out. Made by The Peach Fuzz, a queer-owned brand founded by Elizabeth Hudy in San Francisco, serving up playful socialist agitprop and colorful ways to make a statement.
Nose Best Candles: Lavender & Sage Room Spray Big Spoon – $16
Refresh your space with Big Spoon, a soothing blend of lavender and sage designed to elevate any room. This fine mist room and linen spray features a vegan, cruelty-free water-based formula infused with odor-eliminating enzymes to neutralize unwanted scents, from cooking aromas to pet odors. Free of alcohol, phthalates, and parabens, it’s safe for linens, upholstery, and air care. Made by Nose Best, an LGBTQ+ owned brand founded by childhood best friends Cristian and Brittany in 2020.
Jumie Ceramics: Badass Daily Mug – $72
Hello, badass! This handcrafted Daily Mug was made for you and the unapologetic go-getters in your life. Designed to be a statement piece, a conversation starter, and a guaranteed crowd-pleaser, it’s perfect for your morning brew, afternoon pick-me-up, or evening wind-down. Each mug is individually handmade and hand-painted, making it as bold and unique as you are. With a glossy finish and a sturdy 12oz build, it’s both functional and stylish. Also available in an 8oz espresso size. Handmade by Jumie Ceramics, a queer-owned small business celebrating the beauty of nature and typography through functional, artful pieces.
Angela Denae Style Studio: Energetic Style Reading – $97
Unlock the connection between your personal style and your true self-expression with a 30-minute virtual Energetic Style Reading. This session explores the energetic blocks that may be holding you back, helping you align your wardrobe with your most authentic self. Guided by Angela Denae, a queer style expert and creator of the Style Alchemy Method, this experience is more than fashion—it’s transformation. Offered by Angela Denae Style Studio, a Black, queer, and women-owned space for radical self-expression.
Meow Meow Tweet: Arousal Serum – $30
Dame’s Arousal Serum is a doctor-approved, pH-balanced, and lickable formula designed to heighten pleasure and deepen intimacy. Infused with peppermint for a warm, tingling sensation, this plant-based serum softens and hydrates while enhancing sensitivity. Safe for silicone toys and formulated at a vulva-friendly pH of ~4, it’s free of petrochemicals and made for all bodies. Offered by Meow Meow Tweet, a queer and Asian-owned, low-waste, B-Corp certified brand dedicated to ethical, vegan personal care.
MW Soapworks: Dead Sea Salt Bath Soak Rose Patchouli – $19.50
The luxurious Dead Sea Salt Bath Soak is crafted with pure Dead Sea salt, pink Himalayan salt, and therapeutic-grade essential oils to ease tired muscles and melt away stress. Rich in essential minerals like Bromide, Magnesium, and Zinc, it helps soothe soreness while nourishing the skin. Infused with jojoba, patchouli, and rose essential oils, this soak offers a sensory treat for both body and mind. Handmade by MW Soapworks, a queer-owned, plant-based skincare brand rooted in environmental and social justice.
The Gender Doula: Tarot Reading – $100
Eli Lawliet offers introspective tarot readings designed to provide guidance, particularly for those navigating gender identity and transformation. Using the storytelling and symbolism of tarot, these readings help individuals explore their inner emotions and life’s broader narrative. Rooted in queer and trans-affirming perspectives, Eli’s readings offer a supportive and insightful experience. Available virtually, this service is provided by The Gender Doula, a trans and fat-owned practice dedicated to holistic gender support.
Wildwater Collective: Get Bullish Bought This Gay Keychain With My Gay Money Keychain – $10
Show off your pride with the Bought This Gay Keychain With My Gay Money keychain, a playful nod to classic hotel and motel key tags. Measuring approximately 3.75" x 1.75", this durable plastic and metal keychain is the perfect statement piece for your keys, bag, or wherever you want to add a little queer flair. Made by Wild Water Collective, an artisan collective in Orleans, Massachusetts, specializing in handcrafted clothing, accessories, and gifts. Proudly queer woman-owned and operated by Mariah Fidalgo.
Ash + Chess: The Gay Agenda: A Modern Queer History & Handbook $19.99
Compiled and designed by queer power couple Ashley Molesso and Chess Needham, founders of Ash + Chess, The Gay Agenda is a vibrant, engaging guide celebrating LGBTQ+ history and culture. Packed with historical icons, milestone events, and essential terminology, this book honors the community’s struggles, achievements, and contributions. From Stonewall to the Rainbow Flag, James Baldwin to Laverne Cox, it’s a must-have for history buffs and allies alike. A nostalgic archive, a learning tool, and a tribute to queer resilience.
Drylands Wild: Sagebrush + Snakeweed Perfume Roller – $39
Wade through an endless sea of sagebrush atop New Mexico’s high mesas, where the scent of dry earth, blue sky, and open desert lingers in the air. This gender-free botanical perfume captures the essence of the high desert, blending dusty sagebrush, bright snakeweed, and the warm, pitchy musk of parched earth, piñon resin, and sunshine. Handcrafted with wild-foraged sagebrush, snakeweed, and mugwort, it’s a pure, natural scent with no synthetic ingredients. Made by Dryland Wilds, an LGBTQ+ owned brand dedicated to capturing the real scents of the high desert.
Coming Soon: Bathing Lady Dish – $45
A timeless classic, the Bathing Lady dish is hand-pressed from colored flint glass, making each piece one of a kind. Perfect for holding soap, jewelry, snacks, business cards, or sponges, the possibilities are endless. Measuring 3" H x 5" W x 9" L, this versatile dish adds a playful yet elegant touch to any space. Made by Mosser Glass, a family-owned business crafting American-made glassware since the 1950s. Available at Coming Soon, an LGBTQ+ owned home fashion destination known for bold, eclectic design.
Natalíe Lorraine Ortega: Somatic Therapy Session – $150
Natalíe Lorraine Ortega offers politicized somatic therapy, creating a space where clients can access a felt sense of safety, dignity, and belonging. With a focus on Queer and Trans Black, Indigenous, and People of Color, her work addresses trauma, identity, relationships, parenting, and more. Grounded in justice and liberation, she challenges systemic oppression while making healing accessible. Natalíe offers sliding scale options for QTBIPOC, starting at $150, to ensure her services remain within reach for those most impacted by systemic barriers. As a queer, Latinx, first-generation mama, she brings over 20 years of experience in trauma-informed care and community empowerment.
FLAVNT Streetwear: Hot Trans Boy Muscle Shirt – $35
Soft, breathable, and effortlessly cool, the Hot Trans Boy Muscle Shirt is made for lounging, lifting, or living your best life. With a relaxed fit and wide, low-cut armholes, it delivers a casual, urban vibe that’s as comfortable as it is bold. Made from 100% airlume combed ring-spun cotton, this lightweight tank is perfect for any occasion. Designed by FLAVNT Streetwear, an LGBTQ+ owned brand creating inclusive apparel that promotes self-confidence, self-love, and pride—because queer fashion is for everyone, all year round.
Cosmic Vibrations: Astrocartography Reading – $133
Discover the best places to live, travel, and thrive with a Cosmic Vibrations Astrocartography Reading. This intuitive session explores your natal-based astrocartography chart, uncovering locations ideal for career growth, soulmate connections, past life ties, and areas to avoid. Using Local Space mapping, it also highlights optimal spots within your current city. Led by Dom (they/them) and Mishell (she/they), this queer-owned service offers expert, interactive guidance through Zoom, complete with a recorded session for future reference.
Octopied Mind: Freak Show Slub Cotton T-Shirt – $29
Step right up to the Freak Show—a tee that celebrates all things weird, wild, and wonderfully you. Made from ultra-soft slub cotton, this shirt is for those who embrace their quirks and refuse to blend in. With a bold Freak Show design on the back, it’s a reminder that life is a chaotic performance, and you're the star. Designed by Octopied Mind, a queer, women, and Wolastoqiyik-owned brand creating gender and size-inclusive apparel (XXS-6XL) that honors individuality through hand-drawn art.
Gay Awakening Coffee: Single Origin Gift Set – $44.50
For those who love variety, the Single Origin Gift Set from Gay Awakening Coffee offers three distinct roasts, each with its own bold personality. Featuring Cheers, Queers (Light Roast, Uganda), Drag Bean (Medium Roast, Guatemala), and Too Gay to Function (Dark Roast, Colombia), this set highlights the best of single-origin coffee. Each batch is washed-process and roasted with care, delivering quality coffee for quality humans. Loud, proud, and intentionally queer, this set makes every morning a little more authentic.
Snif: Me Perfume – $65
This shape-shifting scent adapts to your skin’s chemistry, creating a fragrance that’s uniquely yours. Opening with juicy plum and peach skin, it settles into a musky blend of orris, sandalwood, and white moss for a warm, woody finish. Vegan, cruelty-free, and free from parabens and phthalates, Me is designed for all, rejecting gendered fragrance norms. Created by Snif, an LGBTQ+ owned brand redefining luxury scents with clean, high-quality ingredients and a fresh, modern approach.
Mindsei: Ready Cleanse – $150
For those seeking a deep energetic reset, the Mindsei Ready Cleanse is a remote energy clearing designed to identify and release debris, blockages, and attachments in your energy body. This transformative session includes a comprehensive report detailing findings and a personal message from the Masters and Teachers of your Akashic Records. Created by Einar Escoto, founder of Mindsei, this trans and AAHNPI-owned practice blends intuitive healing, coaching, and energy work to help clients reconnect with their authentic selves.
PARU Tea: Pandan Waffle PARU Reserve Tea – $24
Inspired by the Vietnamese dessert Bánh Kẹp Lá Dứa, Pandan Waffle is a rich, aromatic green tea blend that captures the warmth of roasted sticky rice, the sweetness of jujube dates, and the creamy essence of coconut. Anchored by a toasty Assam tea base from Chiang Rai, this small-batch blend offers a comforting yet refreshing experience. Enjoy it hot or as a smooth cold brew. Hand-blended at PARU Tea Lab in San Diego, an LGBTQ-owned specialty tea company dedicated to mindful, high-quality teas.
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Queer and trans love deserves to be celebrated in all its forms, and what better way to do that than by supporting LGBTQ+ creators and business owners? Whether you’re shopping for a partner, a best friend, or yourself, these gifts aren’t just thoughtful—they’re an investment in our community’s creativity, resilience, and success. Every purchase from this list supports a queer-owned brand or service provider, reinforcing the power of choosing gifts that reflect our values and lived experiences.
Beyond Valentine’s Day, fostering queer connection and support is essential, and that’s exactly what Famm Connect is here for. More than just an app, Famm Connect is a space where LGBTQ+ professionals and business owners can build relationships, collaborate, and create opportunities together. Whether you’re looking to expand your network, find mentorship, or connect with others who truly understand your experience, Famm Connect is a place where we show up for and celebrate each other—on Valentine’s Day and every day. 🌈
